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If interested; apply here



Many regularly debate in one's development whether it is due to nature or nurture.

How much is one hard wired from birth or can one evolve into something unique through surroundings.

How do some respond to good coaching, parenting, peer influence, education, key influences today like social media .......and some do not respond. By the way, anything worth doing well is worth finding a good coach to help.


It's not necessarily all or nothing , the right path or the wrong path.... most importantly how does one react to adversity.....fold or with renewed fervor?


What motivates? fear of failure, competitive nature, wanting to please others or not disappoint?


So, perhaps you're exposed to or in someway learn about character, integrity, perseverance, accountability or victim like thinking.


These are a lifetime of working, learning, living and applying our experiences and most importantly APPLYING ourselves.


It's the latter, the applying part, that I reflect back on with an observation or two.


Assuming that one has a modicum of right versus wrong awareness , some smarts (much of which is nature that you're born with) and has a fighting chance, let's talk about applying it.


This is where, reflecting, I could have done things better or different.


I am not complaining, and it turned out okay and am proud and happy with my life and those in it that make it that way like family and friends.


As an example, I could have been more self-aware in school doing what was needed or the minimum , rather than applying more to what was attainable for me. Getting Bs rather than working to get an A, rationalizing, so that I could explore other parts of growing up, mostly positive, rather than falling in the real stupid category, or perhaps it was just due to plain laziness.


My point; to the still learning and growing me;

Am I applying my knowledge, skills (learned and God given) and abilities with integrity today?

Thinking, as I must have back then, to know there is a tradeoff, but now trying to bring it more to a conscious level and an actual choice.


Am simply suggesting, to take a moment to take inventory, take stock and assess abilities and where they stack up on the 'applying them scale', and to determine if I am following my own advice when presented with an opportunity/challenge:


IF INTERESTED, APPLY WITHIN



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